BESOS DE MAMI | DIA DE LOS MUERTOS

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Day of the dead or Dia de los Muertos is a holiday tradition that takes place October 31st – November 2nd. Celebrated primarily in Mexico, the holiday is now celebrated in cultures all over the world. The 3 days are used to celebrate the lives of loved ones who have passed. This is done by creating beautiful alters, praying, cooking your loved ones favorite foods, dancing, visiting their grave sites with gifts – basically celebrating all of the happy memories and times shared together. It’s an extremely special and in particular, happy, holiday. 
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Last Saturday we visited a local bookstore in Spanish Harlem, La Casa Azul. They had a special family day for the 2nd day of Dia de Los Muertos. There were craft activities for the children, calavera face painting, and a musical performance by ¡Uno, Dos, Tres con Andrés!. It was a perfect day of celebrating filled with lots of love. Make sure to head over to Karla’s blog for more besos de mami! 

BESOS DE MAMAI | HOLA DEAR DEER

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This week Karla and I are super pumped to introduce you to Hola Dear Deer, created by two fabulous sisters from Houston, Texas. Erika and Jessica are a crazy talented duo (and apparently the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. They credit their knack for sewing from their papa who was a tailor.) Their shop is full of hand made goodies all created using up-cycled and vintage materials. Can we say LOVE! Lucas received their super hero cape and mama got a bowtie necklace. So let’s discuss the cape. Lucas is head over heels and flat out refuses to take it off. It is seriously just about the cutest thing ever watching him roam the streets of New York sporting his super hero accessory! Toddlers to the rescue, ya’ll 😉 My necklace? What’s more fab than a bow tie! It’s the perfect funky accent to pair with a white tee and a pair of skinny jeans (mom uniform anyone?).holadear3holadearholadear1

Here’s what Jessica had to say.

Any advice you would like to share to someone dreaming of starting a business or following their passion?

My advice would be to never give up. I know it is very cliche but it is very true. I would also suggest making a plan and trying your hardest to stick with it. As a full time bilingual teacher, my schedule is really tight. Good realistic planning and scheduling equals more productivity in my case. 

What part of being hispanic do you love the most?

Oh goodness..I love our culture. The food, family, and the fun :)

What do you enjoy doing on your free time?

I enjoy lots of things on my free time. Depending on my mood I guess, on a great sunny day I love to ride around on my bicycle. On those gloomy days, staying in and watching a movie or reading a book..I’m also very fond of happy hour. 

Who is your biggest inspiration?

I would have to say my parents are my biggest inspiration. They are such hard workers but at the same time keep such a great spirit. Also, we have a lot of family members who are very artistic or crafty with their hands. My dad is a tailor and my grandmother and aunt crochet blankets and little booties for the family. So I love the idea that we are continuing to keep the arts so to speak in the family. 

The biggest thanks to these amazing ladies. Erika and Jess – you both rock! You can get more Hola Dear in your life by liking them on Facebook and following on Instagram

 

BESOS DE MAMI | READING WITH MY BOY

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I absolutely love reading with Lucas. For a long time Lucas didn’t share my enthusiasm. He was much more interested in slamming books shut and chucking them as far as he could. Sometimes the dog would catch a swift blow to the head (sorry Humphrey!). As he is getting older, I find that he enjoys sitting with me and reading for longer periods of time. He of course loves book options that make noise, because well, donkey and pig sounds are pretty rad. One of my favorite books to read with Lucas is Buenas Noches, Luna – the spanish version of the classic Goodnight Moon.

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My favorite time to read with Lucas is first thing in the morning and after bath time. He is a five star cuddler and these are his favorite times of the day to nuzzle up close to mama. We get nice and comfy under the blankets and read (there might also be some tickles and kiss giving going on). I truly believe reading with your kids is so very important. As I mentioned before Lucas really didn’t seem to enjoy reading with me for a long time. I have to admit I became a bit disheartened and couldn’t understand why he didn’t want to sit with mama and read books! 

A BESOS WEEKEND

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As I sit in front of the computer and look at the images above I can’t help but smile. My #besosdemami mama came to visit for the weekend and it was increible. Karla and I have been Instagram friends for a little over a year and over the past few months have formed such an incredible bond. We talk every day. You know the kind of friend that makes you want to be a better person? That’s Karla. The only thing missing was baby France (we are currently planning her engagement with Lucas ;). We went to Playtime, ate street food, went to dinner with my girl Alex, drank cocktails, walked to Central Park, talked, talked, and talked. In a nutshell: NYC perfection. I’m hoping to see that pretty face again sooner than later. Missing you already amiga!

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BESOS DE MAMI | SWEET PENELOPE KNITTS

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Sweet Penelope Knitts. How we love thee. When Karla and I had the opportunity to work with this amazing company, we jumped at the chance. This beautiful shop is full of bonnets, beanies, turbans, coronas – all hand made with so much love by the sweetest, talented mama. When Lucas and I received our Sweet Penelope package my jaw dropped to the floor. The floral corona she sent is the most delicate, beautiful, feminine (can you tell I love it 😉 hair piece. Each corona is one of a kind and created using hand spun linen. Jewelry for your hair if you will. I’m a beanie hoarder and this lime and gray knit(t) for Lucas is soft and perfect. Fall can’t come soon enough for this duo! 
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What do you enjoy doing on your free time?
 
I love to have a morning run! I also love to look through editorial magazines and dream.
 
Tell us your top mom essentials.
 
I love toms shoes for the kiddies. It teaches about giving back which is something we are big on! Shoes are my guilty pleasure when it comes to dressing my little man.
 
Who is your biggest inspiration?
 
God. Without god, I am nothing, my creativity and talents come directly from god. Also, any mom that steps out of the norm to live their dreams, it’s not easy doing both, so they are my inspirations too.
 
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You can read part one of our interview with Jen over on Karla’s blog. And like always, you don’t want to miss the most adorable photos of France! I seriously want to eat that girl up! Follow Jen on Instagram for updates and beautiful photos of her family and products.

BESOS DE MAMI | DOS BORREGUITAS

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Karla and I are both giving Dos Borreguitas two thumbs way up! This adorable company features clothing and accessories for the whole family. Every design features fun sayings in Spanish. A few of my favorites: Chicle: Pegado a Mama (Gum: Stuck on Mom), Mijito/Mijita (my little son/my little daughter), and Se Habla Spanglish (I speak Spanglish). Every shirt is produced using American Apparel organic shirts and they are super soft. Love!

IMG_7744IMG_7751IMG_7659IMG_7675IMG_7701Karla and I talked with Cynthia Garza, founder and owner of Dos Borreguitas. First off, I can’t express enough how lovely she was! We absolutely loved her responses to our q&a and we hope you do too.

Any advice you would like to share for someone dreaming of starting a business or following their passion?Do one thing every day that moves you closer towards doing what you really want to do. I’m a former journalist so making the jump to starting my own business was a really scary idea at first because there was so much to learn and do. It can feel overwhelming at times, but just make a to-do list and keep moving forward and scratching things off that list, one at a time. You’ll get to where you want to before you know it. How does being Latina affect the way you raise your children and what traditions do you hope they will continue to pass on? I very much want my daughters to grow up knowing all the traditions I knew, everything from cracking cascarones at Easter to attending posadas and eating tamales at Christmas. We live in Washington, D.C., though which is a fabulously rich cultural city to raise kids, but also a hard place to find a good authentic taco or a bonafide piñata. I grew up in South Texas and my husband in South Florida where it’s all Latino all the time, but here it takes real effort to connect with our culture. That’s a big part of the reason why I started Dos Borreguitas, because I wanted to somehow channel all these wonderful cultural ideas and experiences to my own two little ones. And in return, they’ve been such a source of inspiration to me. What part of being hispanic do you love the most?The passion, that little flicker inside!

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Dos Borreguitas got it right with their quality and fun sayings. Lucas rocked his tees and received so many smiles from strangers who clearly approved of Luche Libros. PS I absolutely loved this fun spin on the infamous Mexican wrestler Luche Libre. The graphic features Luche Libros: two books in battle. Because clearly books and learning rule! You can follow Dos Borreguitas on Facebook and Instagram @dosborreguitas. And don’t forget to head on over to Karla’s blog to see France sporting her tees and read part two of our interview with Cynthia!  

BESOS DE MAMI | THE TRADITION OF A LULLABY

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This week on Besos de Mami, Karla and I wanted to share one of the many sweet traditions we have created with our babies. Lucas is a big cuddler. Always has been (I know. I’m a lucky mami ;). Part of our cuddling and snuggles involves singing lullabies. Our favorite is Que Linda Manita. The lyrics are:

Qué linda manita que tengo yo
Qué linda y blanquita que Dios me dio
Qué  lindos ojitos que tengo yo
Qué  lindos y negritos que Dios me dio
Qué linda boquita que tengo yo
Qué linda y rojita que Dios me dio
Qué lindas patitas que tengo yo
Qué lindas y gorditas que Dios me dio
 
Translation:
What a pretty little hand I have
So pretty and fair that God gave to me
What pretty eyes I have
Pretty and dark that God gave to me
What a pretty mouth I have
Pretty and red that God gave to me
What pretty legs I have
Pretty and chunky that God gave to me
 
I remember bringing Lucas home from the hospital and humming this to soothe him. His crying would fade into a tiny whimper until there was silence and his cherub face would be nuzzled into my chest. I’d kiss the top of his head and listen to his sweet snores. Bliss. I still sing this very lullaby to Lucas and I hope he will sing it to his own children someday (que the waterworks) and continue the tradition. As he gets older I hope hearing the lyrics will evoke memories of his mama rocking him. Memories of kisses, endless snuggles, and love. So much love.

BESOS DE MAMI | TROMMPO

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This week Besos de Mami has teamed up with Trommpo. This incredibly gorgeous children’s line was founded in 2010 by Catalina Bouza and Dean Xavier. Carolina is Uruguayan and this is where their workshop is also located. They locally produce all of their garments on family based farms! The Trommpo signature design is simple: bold, graphic, and with imagination and play in mind. When Karla and I received our packages in the mail we couldn’t get over the cut and quality of each piece. Luxurious to the touch – swoon! They fit both Lucas and France beautifully with room to grow. Best part? They look amazing and the kids are comfortable. Winning all around. Karla and I had the opportunity to chat with Carolina and she was an absolute doll.
What do you enjoy doing on your free time?
Going to the movies, spending time with my sisters, walking our dogs, going to museums and food markets.
 
Tell us your top “mom essentials”.
A loving attitude and patience. Having enough time to share with her and being really present in our playing sessions.
 
What is your biggest inspiration?
Modern and contemporary art. I love going to museums to get inspired. 
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Karla and I are honored to highlight amazing companies influenced and run by strong, Latina women. We hope this will empower everyone to have the courage to make their dreams come true!
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BESOS DE MAMI | RECIPE: LONG LIVE THE PLATANO

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Just so we’re clear, I am from Puerto Rico and the hubs is from the Dominican Republic. That’s a whole lotta latin blood. Can you blame us for loving a good platano dish? And low and behold, it is now one of Lucas’s favorite things to eat ever. The boy has an excellent pallet 😉 We usually cook up some bananas for breakfast along with some simple but tasty side dishes. Ivan likes his with a side of queso frito (fried cheese) and salchichon (fried salami). While this tastes freaking awesome, it’s not really the healthiest of meals. I skip the cheese and salami, and serve Lucas his plantanos with fruit, eggs, and avocado if we have it in the fridge.

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BESOS DE MAMI

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My culture has always been something I have been very proud of. I am of Puerto Rican decent and my hubby’s family is from the Dominican Republic. We are both American but our roots are full of rich, beautiful Latin culture. While on my trip to Puerto Rico I began to receive comments and messages from followers who had no idea that I was Puerto Rican and vice versa. I was completely unaware that this amazing community of Latina women even existed! It got me excited. Really excited! I started reading mommy blogs when I became pregnant with Lucas and admire, follow, and even have the privilege to call a handful my friend. However, after starting my own blog I realized that while I love so many of these beautiful families, none were like me.

I met Karla through Instagram  (I love me some IG 😉 and we have become fast, long distance friends. She lives with her husband and gorgeous daughter France in Sunny California. While I was vacationing in PR, we had an amazing phone conversation that got our juices flowing. Two Latina women getting worked up? You can just imagine the high pitched squeals coming from either end of the phone 😉 We came up with an idea to share with our readers what life is like as modern, American women instilling our core values into our children. Karla and I will be sharing everything from recipes, traditions, our roles as mothers and wives, and our struggles.

We have lovingly dubbed this series besos de mami. This journey is not just for Latin mommies, but all mommies. I think it is so important for us to teach our children to embrace all cultures and learn about what makes the people around so very special and unique. I hope you will enjoy following along and learning more about our families. Besos!